The most important thing I learned during fieldwork is that the life of an elementary teacher is not too unlike a parent, a very good parent. It is a profession that requires the utmost patience, understanding and multi-tasking. The teacher must wear many hats and can't simply be "ok" at some of them but instead must be very good at most of them and great at many of them. I now have a theory that the best parents make the best teachers. If you are able to deal with and ensure the success of 25 students, then dealing with your 2, 3, or 5 at home should not pose such a problem. And likewise, if a mother is successful with only a few children then those same skills are enough to be successful with a large class of kids, assuming they receive the proper formal education and skills (such as class room management). This is why I say that from what I've seen and learned, the classroom management is the most important skill to have; assuming, the teacher already has the tangibles: patience, understanding, caring, concern, multi-tasking...etc.
My wife and I have three children together. They are 8 months, 4 years and 6 years. They stress her out after a long day of caring for them necessitating her having a long break from them when I arrive home from work. But to me.....they drive me absolutely INSANE, when I spend the same amount of time with them. I fancy myself a very good multi-tasker, thank you very much OCD but I don't have the patience I thought I once had necessary to handle them without getting upset and wanted to leave them alone to fend for themselves! So it's no wonder that most elementary school teachers are females. It makes sense now. These women have the God given ability to deal with stressful, non-stop attention seeking kids in a multi-tasking environment without wanting to jump out ht window after five minutes. Now, when I see a male elementary school teacher I know there is something very special about him. He is a different breed who has dedicated himself to the art of learning how to manage these kids at these earlier ages. And interestingly enough, you know how many male teachers I saw at the school I observed? ZERO. Besides the principal and janitor I didn't see another male teacher. Maybe there is one but i never had interaction. This tells me that 1. Kids in elementary school do need male role-models in the form of male teachers and 2. There is a market for male teachers if there are any brave education students out there really willing to sacrifice their souls!